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February 24, 2010

Reasons Not to Use Social Media

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Filed under : Social Media

Believe it or not, I am writing a post advocating not using social media. If you bear with me for the entire post, you’ll see that I’m a proponent for students using social media to advance their careers. But, like misguided companies who sign up for Facebook “just ’cause,” students shouldn’t sign up for various social media “just ’cause.”halt

Without further ado, here are five reasons students should not be using social media:

  1. Don’t use social media if you see it solely as an opportunity for shameless self-promotion. Trust me when I say you’re not making any friends if the only thing you post on Twitter or Facebook is links to your blog posts, announcing who you’ve met and other content that generally inflates your ego. Self-promotion needs to be done very carefully and strategically. I recommend focusing on building relationships with those you meet and adhere to the 70/30 rule: share 70 percent content from others and around 30 percent of your own.
  2. Don’t use social media if you only want to complain, talk about what you’re eating or hate on everything. “Ugh, I HATE my professor!” “OMG, FML. I have a paper due tomorrow and I haven’t started :( .” If this is you and if you see a lot of it in your stream, avoid it. Sure, it’s OK to be human and complain, but no one likes a Negative Nancy. Think before you post and you’ll thank yourself later.
  3. Don’t use social media to talk about how drunk you are. If you want to post how drunk you are on Facebook… don’t. If you want to post on Twitter how many shots you’ve had… don’t. Honestly, it’s just not worth it. Even if you’re 21, it overall reflects poorly on your character and might offend those in your network.
  4. Don’t use social media to replace offline networking. This is my biggest pet peeve. Social media absolutely does not replace the value of in-person networking. Make sure to stay active in associations and go to conferences–that’s where you meet people.
  5. Don’t use social media for the sole purpose of getting a job. You can tell who’s using social media to get a job and who’s using social media for its real purpose. I think it’s great to participate in #HAPPO and #PRStudChat, but once those chats are over, try to avoid constantly advertising yourself as a job seeker.

Looking at what I’ve written above, it makes me sound like a social media elitist. And I’m not. I think social media is a great place for you to show your genuine personality and to build relationships with others. These are things that will not help you do that. In fact, you’ll probably be ignored and unfollowed if these are the only things you use social media for. All in all, just be smart and use your best judgment.

So, what do you use social media for? Anyone have any interesting perspectives they would like to share?

Photo by woodleywonderworks on Flickr.

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  • Students are using it more day by day and i have seen that in many Social Media Networks, May be we professionals use it less
  • All I can say is AMEN! I wish students, especially, would take social media more seriously in terms of personal branding. Even professionals don't always act appropriately online, which is disappointing. I think that facebook will eventually change for the better as parents, grandparents and professionals are becoming friends with the younger audience on facebook. I would like to think that out of respect, young people will take off Vegas and keg stand pictures from their profile. (Wishful thinking, perhaps.)
  • nicklucido
    Thanks for your thoughts, Christa. Our generation used Facebook in a different era, and now that it's for everyone, we all have to change our habits. After all, Google doesn't forget.

    By the way, I'm going to Vegas this Saturday, actually. Good thing you warned me about posting photos before :)
  • Laura Cumbow
    Great post. Completely agree!
  • Kimberley
    Thanks for the thoughtful post. I am going to put it on my facebook page. It makes me think about how to use FB. FB came up in one of my HR classes. The question was should HR departments search for applicants on FB. I said yes, it is the World Wide Web and very public information.
  • nicklucido
    Kimberley, good point. HR reps are going to Google more often to find out information about candidates. Whether or not it's a good thing is definitely determined by your social media habits.
  • Great post Nick. As always, you're offering some great advice here. These tips for what not to do ultimately fit into a great strategy of how to use social media properly. Getting into good habits early with social media is the best way to maintain your point of view online, make meaningful connections, build a strong network, share great content and ultimately, learn.

    Keep up the great posts!
  • nicklucido
    Thanks, Becky. I always think social media is a great place to listen and watch. Of course, it's cool to be the one everybody hears, but I feel like you learn so much more by stepping back for a bit and enjoying the view.
  • lindalynch
    Substitute 'client' or 'customer' for job and you have a great set of do NOT's for businesses and business owners as well. The bottom line is that no matter who you are, it has to be about building your relationships, creating community and adding content. The interesting thing is that if you do that well, you won't have to say anything great about yourself; your community will do it for you and that is much more valuable.

    Great post Nick!
  • nicklucido
    An old coworker posted on Twitter that this is a list of "do nots" for more than just students, and I agree that businesses can fit here, too. I didn't even think of that while writing, but I appreciate you pointing it out. Thanks!
  • Well said, Nick. Thought I'd throw out a couple "Dos" for students, w/ some MSU specific examples:

    1. Follow your professors; you might learn about them as human beings, and this will make taking classes from them even more enjoyable. And yes, there are some out there (@LynneGoldstein @Captain_Primate @ChipBrock to name a few).

    2. Follow campus programs to see what's going on! @MSUUnion, @EatAtState, @MSUStuLife...these programs, which offer fantastic services for you, are all on Twitter to offer you a chance to see what is available for you to do, be it evening activities or leadership opportunities.

    3. Find professionals in the field you are interested in, and follow them. It's a great chance to learn about the field you're pursuing. http://wefollow.com is a good place to start.

    4. communicate with all the people/things listed above! Make connections, meet people, and you'll begin to see the benefits of what this is about!
  • I wish my professors (at Cal State Fullerton) were on Twitter :(
  • nicklucido
    Terry, thanks for adding to the conversation. I agree there are a lot of "dos" out there, and thanks for listing some of these. I have a lot of friends who don't necessarily use social media for the connections you list above, but I've found a lot of value in doing so. I wish more would get on board with your ideas!
  • evanstrange
    First and foremost, great post Nick!

    I couldn't agree more with 1, 4 & 5. Shameless self-promotion does nothing for building relationships- it does the exact opposite. If you have a post of your own you think is worth sharing, then by all means, share it. However, constantly promoting your own blog/work every other tweet gets a bit annoying.

    As far as #5 is concerned- If you are just there for a job, it's quite obvious and you are probably not going to get the results you think you are going to get.

    You're the anti-elitist, sir. Well done.
  • nicklucido
    Tell me about it! Self-promotion is fine, but it is an art, not a competition of who can say the most. I respect people trying to build a "personal brand," but personally, it's not for me. Thanks for the thoughts!
  • It's all about using properly. I am a big fan of Social Media. Social Media is important and should be use but with a STRATEGY. That's when the DO's and DON'Ts come into play. Nick has brought up great DON'Ts, I would like to see a post on the DO's hehe! Great post, I will use this post a future reference!
  • nicklucido
    Hi Joao, thanks for dropping by. I actually wrote the post because I've read so many posts encouraging people to jump in the deep end of social media. While I mostly agree, I haven't read a lot about advice on what NOT to do. But you're right, and I'll write a post soon on best practices. Thanks again!
  • keegan_shoutz
    Great post! Social media can definitely hurt you and not help you if you don't use it appropriately! It's important to step back and look at the message you are disseminating to a large number of people. Don't forget, once it's online, it's on there forever if someone else can copy it.
  • nicklucido
    Keegan, I can't agree with you more. Google never forgets, so it's important to be conscious of what you're posting online. You never know who is Googling you--it might be an employer, friend or family member, so be smart about what you're posting. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
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