PR Start by Nick Lucido
Interns Using and Abusing Connections
One of the perils of having a lot of PR student connections in my own network, especially lately, is being bombarded with Facebook fan page suggestions for a lot of junk I’m not really interested in. I don’t mean to sound rude, but I think this is one of the negative aspects of having an intern do your social media. I just defriended a connection who invited me to the same lame Facebook page for the fourth time, so that’s what sparked this post.

I know there are two sides to the topic of interns running social media, but when it comes to gathering Twitter followers and Facebook fans, you need to be strategic about your approach. About a month ago, Gini Dietrich posted about the issue of social media interns, and it’s a good read if you didn’t know interns are running a lot of social media programs. If you do have an intern running your social media, here are some tips from me as a human being and a PR student:
- Don’t assume your connections are going to be interested in a local restaurant 2,000 miles away or an organization that means nothing to them. When you are inviting friends, make sure you know something about that person that would lead them to be interested in your cause or company. Even better is to make your organization relevant to other people.
- If someone isn’t interested in that cause of company once, they will not be interested in it a second time. Nor the third, fourth, fifth… etc. When you request something from a connection more than once, you become a spammer. A lot of people don’t like spammers, so don’t be one.
- What’s in it for your followers? Anything? Then no thanks. I rarely follow companies on Twitter; when I do, it’s because they occasionally offer something free or provide me (and the rest of their followers) with exclusive information or content. Social media shouldn’t be another channel for the same message. Pay attention to your audience and know what they are looking for.
- Social media isn’t about quantity, it’s about quality. Just because you conned 1,000 of your Facebook friends to become a fan of your company’s page does not mean it’s going to benefit your company. I would take 50 quality connections who are genuine fans over 1,000 randoms any day.
- Make sure you spend time with your community. In general, you should be simply interacting about two-thirds of the time and promoting your organization the other third.
What do you think? Do you see this problem a lot? How do you respond? Any best practices you can share?
Photo by Mulad on Flickr.

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I agree. I often get page and cause invites from acquaintances on Facebook that are completely irrelevant to me. Often I either block the person from sending more invites or de-friend them if that isn’t an option.
And you’re right; even if I do join I don’t usually interact or care about the updates, which really is doing the company no good at all.
Good post. Certainly had to be said.
Comment on December 9, 2009 01:15 pmI totally agree. I also recently defriended someone who kept inviting me to be a fan of a business that I was not interested in whatsoever. I ignored the request at least five times before I finally removed the person as a friend. It was really annoying. Thanks for bringing attention to this issue. Great post as always Nick!
Comment on December 9, 2009 04:05 pmI agree with you, Nick. It’s totally frustrating when other people are pushing ridiculous fan pages, quizzes, games, etc. Great post!
Comment on December 10, 2009 10:38 amExcellent job, Nick. This accentuates my decision to keep Facebook primarily personal (family, friends and a few key biz fan pages) and to use Twitter, LinkedIn, etc. for primarily business. It’s a bit difficult sometimes but helps to keep my family from tuning out to biz stuff they don’t understand, by the same token, keeping my business connections from tuning out to personal things they may not care about.
Comment on December 10, 2009 01:26 pmGood point on blocking them from sending you stuff in the future. I just wonder if there’s more negative to positive when it comes to reaching out badly. Thanks for dropping by!
Comment on December 12, 2009 11:46 amThanks, Angela. Now, how much of that brand’s image has been affected by that one person’s bad behavior? I know in my own experience, that “brand” is tainted.
Comment on December 12, 2009 11:52 amInteresting perspective, Tressa. I use different social networks for different reasons as well, and people in my Facebook network still don’t seem to get that Facebook is a personal place for me, too. Thanks for adding your comment!
Comment on December 12, 2009 11:58 am